Thursday, 15 August 2013

THE TRAP ABOUT DEVORCE


Matthew 19:3-12

Today’s gospel is about marriage and divorce. The Pharisees wanted to test Jesus if He was against or for the Law about divorce. They do it by citing the teaching of Moses so that He may declare publicly whether He rejects this teaching or not. Jesus answers them by giving a citation which is older than theirs. The Lord takes them away back to the beauty of God’s original plan as presented in Genesis. And he says that Moses allowed divorce only to control the consequences of sinfulness and of hardness of heart.

This was a hard lesson to take then, and it is a hard lesson to accept even now in our society. My concern is the reaction of the disciples after the Lord told them that it is not right to divorce and remarry. What was their reaction? They said, “If that is the case, we will not get married anymore.” They reaction reflects the fear of risk. They fear to risk into a lifelong commitment. And this is an aspect of our society today where we try to understand that nothing is permanent and there is no need of permanent bounds.

The important message for us form this gospel is that the Lord call us to fidelity; this is what Jesus gives so much emphasis. And to be faithful requires great discipline but mostly grace from the Lord. It is God who offers His unconditional love to all and helps us to be faithful in our commitments. His love is a gift. There is no perfect decision or perfect option in life if not given by the Lord. All He asks is to remember Him as a loving God. I think this is why Jesus goes back to the original plan of God to remind us that faithfulness and fidelity belongs to God. He is the one who joins; and “What God has joined together, let no man put separate”.

God never promised us a life without risk. He never promised us a life without problem. God never promised us a life of ease and comfort. God only promised us that He would be with us till the end of time. Let us pray through the intercession of Stephen of Hungary that we may remain in his love.

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